After BD in Oct'12, W complained about feeling like she was controlled by me, living in my world and had nothing for herself (this was in addition to hearing about the OM she had always been in love with sight unseen since high school and wanting an open marriage so she could continue to facebook him ). I thought, okay, have it your way. Separated the checking accounts, dropped her cell, split up the car insurance, stopped paying her car note, canceled or separated all the credit cards, and I moved out. Except for the child support that automatically goes into our former joint account every month, I contribute little else.
Of course, we are headed full steam for divorce in an few months still (I filed a few weeks ago and we are in mediation), so what do I know . I know this, if I hadn't done all of that, I would be a lot angrier now for feeling like I was supporting her nonsense 100% and I just didn't need that.
Me42 W41 D10,D15 T25 M23 LYBNILWY 09/12 OEA 08/12(?)-ended? 01/13 Sep 01/13 I file 04/13 1rst D hearing 06/13 Currently in mediation
). I thought, okay, have it your way. Separated the checking accounts, dropped her cell, split up the car insurance, stopped paying her car note, canceled or separated all the credit cards, and I moved out. Except for the child support that automatically goes into our former joint account every month, I contribute little else. 
. I know this, if I hadn't done all of that, I would be a lot angrier now for feeling like I was supporting her nonsense 100% and I just didn't need that.