I smiled and suggested maybe she should've went on Monday after she had her nails done. That brought a sheepish grin and double middle fingers. I just laughed.
But they were well manicured double fingers, no?
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I finally asked her what was bothering her.
I have found asking what's wrong to be a mistake. We can't fix 'em and they wouldn't want us to even if we could. Only offer your guidance when she comes to you.
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Evidently one of the other kids had told our boys about some W play activity that happened back last fall. He heard it from his mother. W was ticked. I encouraged her to not let it bother her.
I'd like to add to the spot on comments T posted above regarding this. I hope you aren't talking about your sitch with anyone except one or two people you can trust to keep everything in confidence. The more people know, the harder it makes it for your guys to R.
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Consequences to our actions, who would've thought it?!?!
We call that the Reality Stick. You have to let it do its job.
Stay on course, you're doing fine!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
