Thank you all for welcoming me...uhhh, I mean not that I want to be here...:-( (oh well, I guess no one wants to be here) but I am glad I found this forum where I can vent, listen and get some advice & learn.

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Did the two of you, or him alone, ever go to a therapist?


CB, No, he refused to go to a therapist together, but he said recently that he went to see a therapist last year only once and never went back 'coz he said that they cannot help him...(but I really doubt he did!).
I went several times when he first move out.

Me50 H53 S22
M23
2007 1st BD
May 2011 2nd BD
Aug 2011 Moved out(wants space)
Feb 2012 came back (wants to work things out)
Sept2012 moved out
Oct 2012 found out OW but denies
March 2013 Admits OW