Hello BRNR, I too am sadly in this sit. especially the back and forth with leaving the door open or shut. Feeling sad about the kids being put 2nd in H's life. Crazed when he told my boys (ages16&19) that communication was the key. Ha! Having to be so sweet and polite when he is with the kids 20 minutes of a day and thinks its parenting. Still too much bitterness on my part. I know.. I just wrote in journal this AM something similar to the rose-colored glasses statement. I wrote... maybe you(my h) never were really here, maybe that was just my fantasy??
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
