I agree NLW. And while he could be approaching things in his head as you proposed, from a place of love and frustration, then he can very well try a different approach instead of the bullying and controlling tactics he has been using.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home