"I've been focusing all my anger on you. I've been cruel and mean. I had to blame you, because I just couldn't accept that I was the problem. It had to be that I didn't love you enough or you weren't this or that, so I didn't have to see that I'm the problem.\\
I find this very significant for whatever type of R you and your H cultivate, Tallula. If this is sincere, which of course time will reveal, then this could really be a shift in your H that he needs for himself to begin to heal and grow. I know I shouldnt compare, but really? I could not imagine my H saying something like that to me. He is adamant that I was the problem (why he left) and still am the problem (I didn't run to the D lawyer when he yelled boo).
Exciting baby news!!!!!! What a beautiful, positive, affirmation of life and love for you and your kids to have right now. :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
