I agree with so many things. The wanting to just MOVE ON, hating feeling "stuck", the OW feelings. It's true, they are really, really selfish. I sit back and think "How can you live with yourself cheating with a man while his wife is pregnant." Then to find out their are 2 woman willing to do this?! (Yeah, the nurse is FB friends with my H, so she well aware he is marriend and I'm expecting) I just simply think, I am the best choice. I would never do that to someone in a million years. I wouldn't even do it to my H!
We are fabulous!! If these men don't see it, we will bask in our wonderousness and one day someone will treat us how we deserve. In your case it's either your H or another man. In my case...it's a rich young hardbody
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D