Sorry to hear about this, AS. As many have said, you have been a huge source of support and knowledge throughout my sitch. Mine is for sure ending in a D, but I will be great. And it's with help from people like you.
You are wonderful!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D