I can relate on how you feel. I am really tempted to express to my spouse about her controlling, narcissistic, emasculating behavior that led me to not wanting to spent every spare moment around her. It would hurt her and I dont want to do that.
Its probably not a good time to tell her as she would likely take it in a negative way. If she was willing to try I would suggest some constructive criticism, but she is not at this point yet.
Keep up the good work with the GAL, new activities takes your mind off the situation!
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.