No contact with W yesterday. She will be at the house tonight.
Last night I got into a fight with my mother. She felt that she had to tell me that if she sees my W she is going to "Give her a piece of my mind- how dare she do this to you and your little girl"
I re-explained to her that doing so would be negative. That currently there are two outcomes we fix this mess or we D and co-parent the rest of our lives. I again told her that Im not doing all this work to allow her to undermine me and my efforts.
She said she would "try" but could not guarantee anything. So I told her that if a situation like that were to occur I would do whatever I needed to do to protect my immediate family.
she didnt like that.
SO, anyone reading this thread- "MAKE SURE YOU KEEP THE ROAD BACK CLEAR"
If possible, do not tell anyone of your sitch- Its tough, but this is what YOU will have to deal with IF you piece it back together.
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13