I also like your C's advice. You will be taking some control of the situation while having him do the heavy lifting. If HE wants to make the decisions HE can do the work.
Remember all the positive comments and keep doing those things. Any negative comments?
I also like that HE texted you. Now go abuse your eliptical rock star
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13