When do you get to the point of telling the WAS what they need to work on? There are definitely things that made me stressed and unhappy in our M. I have never really brought them up (probably part of our demise). In my sitch I see no point of bringing up this stuff now. What good would it do. She is already 99% gone already. If she doesn't stay then it won't be my problem anyway. However, if she does stay, it doesn't seem like a good idea to bring that stuff up either (more walking on eggshells) because she thinks I am the root to all of her problems.
Not sure why but this is just something I have been thinking about recently.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.