Andrew, it was so nice to get your post. I consider you my friend, and keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Yes, if you assume the role of a victim, you will attract being a victim, which means that people will behave in hurtful ways toward you. You don't want that.
You said, "I still have fear of presumed goodness resulting in a repeat of last year." What do you mean?
Sending you my best.
PS. I don't know how I'm going to let the DB know about the book...Maybe it just won't be possible??
