I read your post and feel your pain, im in a sort of similar sitch, but I have already found a place to live and am sharing parenting with the W.
I will leave it to the vets to chime in, but unfortunately you are probably in the worst phase of it right now. Take lots of deep breathes, dont act on your emotions and be patient. The patience part is what will kill you the most, but hang in there, it gets easier as time passes by.
This thing is out of your hands now, the only things that are in your hands are what you do from here. Keep a journal, watch your negative thoughts and allow yourself time to grieve, but not around your W. This will probably be the most challenging things you will face, but you will grow from this and you will need to find the positives in order to survive.
Look up sandi's 37 tips as a starting point and wait for the posts to come in.
Hang in there. You will find the help you need on this forum.
Me - 37 W - 37 M -5 T - 15
S=5 S=3
Seperated - 12/12 BD - 20/03/13 Still seperated - no R or M talk yet.
