2chiqs, you have made me think about how I would feel if W suddenly said she was staying and wanted to work on R. I would definitely feel anxious. I would have to discuss with her what I need. She would also need to change. This stresses me out. I do walk on eggshells around her and that is not a good way to live.

Thank you for your insight. Good luck.

M 37 W 36
T22
M14
D8
D4
8/2012 distanced
BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.)
W move out date: June 8th.