Hi uRworthy,

You're right, Im a "talker" and a problem solver so it makes it that I didnt get to talk with her tough.

I'm coming to realize that it is utmost importance that she feels head. I've realized that a major issue for her was she WAS trying to get through to me in her own ways...and I didnt see/get all of her messages...

Yes, I agree and hope that the absolutes she is speaking in may not be her opinions and feelings down the road. I hope that is the case, everyone says to not believe everything she says...

I need to make changes or myself, first and foremost. Give her space to go on her journey, and go on mine...

It's just so hard to let go... I worry that everything she says he believes and won't change hr mind on...ever.. I need to focus on me... Somehow... Advice and support always welcome.



M: 38
W: 43
D: 4
T: 14
M: 7
BD & W left: 03/01/13