Sorry you are here. I can't imagine the challenge of going to work at the same place.
It sounds to me like your husband started having depression issues a few years ago. Did the two of you, or him alone, ever go to a therapist? From what I have seen in my W and on these boards, depression and MLC go hand in glove.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"