Sorry to hear this, Breakdown. That must have been very hard and hurtful when you found the pics. I hope that you are able to work through the details with her.

It's very easy for us to look back and say that we didn't appreciate what our spouses were while we thought we were happily married, do don't beat yourself up too bad.

I hope that your kids hold up during all of this.


M44 H57
D17 (special needs)
M 18 yrs
Bomb 7/2/12
Still living together