Nothing like a good workout to find perspective. I know what you guys are saying, I need to be the ideal husband, not just now in this crisis, but going forward. Sure, we all make mistakes, but I need to address the pain I have caused over the past few years. She has caused pain too, but that is up to her to fix, I can only focus on what I can do.

No woman ever looks back and thinks "I sure miss my husband snooping around and acting really possessive" right?


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"