Good advice guys, the problem is, I DO know about the crush/EA/tattoo boy. Everything I know is found on public FB views, but I'm sure it would still come across as an invasion of her privacy and I would end up as the bad guy in this. But, I know the presence of this guy plays some role in the equation and it is driving me NUTS not saying anything. But, T, you are spot on that she knows me very well and probably senses it anyway. We'll see where it goes tomorrow, but I know both of you are right that I need to focus on me and what I can do better as a husband, and to help her through her issues. I know it, it is just hard.
Speaking of focusing on me, I am going to go workout. Saw 210 on the scale today (down from 229 in January and 220 when I heard the news from her a month ago). Not quite the six pack of tattoo boy, but my clothes sure are fitting better.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
