I look at some of these posts and wonder, "why is it you stayed, exactly?" And then I wonder if you happened to write down why you stayed back at the beginning. Just for comparison.
Couple of thoughts.
AJ
Looking at the beginning I see that I stayed because I needed the time to get myself in order. H has made no change in almost a yr, and I see I know longer say I L him.
There is a good lesson here...I'm still going to take more time to learn from it!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
