Hi Mandy... ahh, another success story. Thank You! So Exciting!

If I can ask, did your H get to decide about your R in the end? I have been reading how its the LBS who gets the choice. Was this the case for you?

Also, during your time apart, when you were alone... what things went through your head/heart? Did you miss him? Ever make random calls just to hear his voice or call at a weird hour for no reason? Did you fear that if you went back, things would be the same? (this is something that my h says to me... I want to make that fear go away). He always says its possible that we could get back together.

Tx... looking forward to hearing from you.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)