yes, you will be the target...ironically because you are closest, safest person to blame...don't take it personally. Just work on you, be the best 2.4 you can be. Don't listen to the others, decide for YOU what you are going to do...seems a lot people these days don't appreciate honoring vows, or doing the hard work...it's always "hit the easy button"...listen to yourself, not them. I almost wanted to punch the last guy who told me to dump my W and teach her a lesson..lol.
Hang in there! T^2
I do wonder to myself how many of these people she is talking to know about her dirty texts and EA with OM. I would say 0% on the texts and only one or two about the OM. I can't imagine half of them would support her the way they are if they knew the truth.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.