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He said no, he said though he is not giving me any L, or respect, he is not leaving me either...

What about what I want, need for myself?


I so very much hear you on this Dawn.

My H doesn't understand why I can't be "ok" with the way things are - because he says he's "ok".

Good for you, keeping 180 and detached. That's one crazy moment down and only several billion to go ... crazy

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.