That is probably the very best advice you have given me, 25!
I am going to follow through and concentrate on my own happiness and self growth. I need to take my attention, and my DISTRACTION, away from wife. What she is doing with her life is her choice. I can't let it bother me or affect me any longer. I know this. It is something I have had an extremely hard time letting go of, and now if the time to really concentrate on it. I know it will not be easy to do. I am not even sure if I am capable of fulling letting go, but it is time. It is now about ME.
