Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part IV)

[cbtdad]

AS, I am sorry to hear this man. You are one of my heroes though. You seem to be moving on with your life well and really seem to have a grasp in who you are. Even though this has to be hurting you, you have a positive outlook on things in the end.
The part where you talked about RetroV hit home with me big time.
That's where I think my W is at the moment. From things she has said it seems like she wants this to work. She has an idea what things could be like.
But her emotions are telling her differently.