Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

well, I'm pretty sure the M over. I don't want it to end but I can't stay with someone who treats me like she does. She has been saying that she doesn't know what she wants to do but this morning she said that she had decided on leaving me for OM. She admitted to kissing OM but says that's as far as it went. We argued this morning and she asked "why don't you just leave me?" then I said something like "I'm not the one that wants to leave why don't you leave?" and "she said OK I will." Then we talked a little more and she said if I wanted to go to counseling that she would go. Then I told her that I didn't want her to go just because I wanted her to. I don't feel like fighting for M anymore. The whole situation just [censored] but I'm going to carry on and hopefully I'll be able to find a relationship worth fighting for.

Thanks for all the support. I'll probably stick around the forums for a while.