Well the boyfriend's mom was talking to boyfriend last night so I'm sure D18 will find out soon enough. I agree, it's an opportunity to support her & not freak out. If anything, it'll be a chance to tell her how much we trust her & her decision making skills. I'll be on the opposing side of H in this regard, though, because he hasn't had much experience with kids anymore and doesn't trust their decisions like I do now.

Do you think he was generally obtuse and insensitive with his infidelity comments? His version of reality and our history of monogamy made no sense.


M: 40
H: 43
D15, D17
M: 22 years
S: 7/12