Thanks FY, she did communicate and she did come back. Though we have had good times since her last trip, she is more distant.

I've got to work on letting her go.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later