So why talk? How would you have viewed this at 18? (I would have been angry that my mom and his mom were talking about me without including me in the discussion).

Love her, support her, treat her as you would like to be treated.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss