I can echo all of the above on the BD speech. She kept saying she missed out on dating. It's still the one part of her speech that I took to mean mlc. Dating! Seriously?
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later