You say it is good that she is looking inwardly and doing counselling, at the moment she does not believe we can work. I think she will choose to move out on the 1 May. Is thios good because it is WAS not MLC?
I really feel we can make this work, of course I cannot tell her this, I need to prove it by action on myself and by listening to her.
She had over the past five months dealt with some MLC type issues, for instance she lied about her age, even to the children, she has stopped doing this and is accepting her true age now.
I cannot stop her moving out, it worries me that if she does that will be it, I know I must stay calm and focus on improving me.
When people talk about validating the feelings, are you saying agree and say you understand, without judgement?.
Me 44 WAS 41 T 11 S 8 D 5 DB November 2012 EA and PA discovered December 2012 WAS moved out 4 May 2013 Share residence of S and D 50/50 WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.
