NLW, I'm sorry for your sitch. It is a whole new ball game when they turn mean...when that happens IMO there is no DBing I think at that point it becomes survival and protecting you're kids if you have them.
My kids are now afraid of the man they loved, respected and admired. It really is the whole personality change that is so shocking, according to H it's my fault the kids feel the way they do...delusional.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending