Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

I wrote this last night but I think the forums were down.

I need to rant for a little but.

So, yesterday morning W asked if it would be ok if one of her female friends came over tonight and spent the night here. I didn't have a problem with that so I agreed. So, I go pick them up from school after her rehearsal and on the way home W says that she had a charlie horse at rehearsal and wanted to get some bananas because potassium would help with it. I was wearing pajamas so we decided that we would go home first then W and her friend would go to the store for bananas. Then an hour went by and they should have been back. I started to worry that they got into an accident or something and tried texting W. No answer, so I tried calling. It went straight to voice mail. Then I found her friends number and texted her asking where they were at. She responded that they "stopped by [OM and his girlfriends] apartment because I have never met them. be back soon." keep in mind that it is midnight.

I'm really upset with W right now. I'm really starting to feel that sticking around and trying to work things out with her is a complete waste of time. I wish it was easier to decide what to do.