This all relatively new im starting LRT as me and my wife are seperated. She is out of the house. One of the things I am struggling with as also posted this in mey original newbie profile is supporting my wife while she is having the affair. Paying for cell phone, gas, her rent, 100% of everything. She has no problem communicating to me when she needs something or the kids. Try to have chats with her about "nothing" and wont do it. She gives all that to OM. I want to tell here as long as your having the affair (which she doesnt view as an affair because its meaningless)you dont get the priveleges of me being a husband. Otherwise will she ever realize what I offer? I also I am making the changes in my life that are needed. But i almost feel like if I keep supporting her she may never have respect for me. But of course the whole DB thing says what makes sense doesnt work.. Help!?!?
