Welcome to the mlc forum, a place where no one wants to be, but the door is always open to help others who are walking the path w/us. I'm very sorry that you find yourself here, but I promise you that you will find many wonderful people here who are always happy to help others.
Yes, there is always hope for your marriage. No one can take that away from you. You must develop a thick skin, dig deep for patience, understanding and compassion because the mlc trip is not for the faint of heart. This is a very long, hard marathon, not a sprint.
The best thing you can do is keep the focus on you and your family and allow God to work on your h. Learn to live your life as if your h may not return. Read as much as you can on this forum in order to have a better understanding of what your h is going through, as well as what you are experiencing.
Please feel free to post questions or if you just want to talk. It's a great place to journal, i.e., your journey so that you can look back a year from now to see where you are.
Please be sure to take care of yourself and the most important thing...protect your assets, i.e., joint accounts, etc.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
