yes, you will be the target...ironically because you are closest, safest person to blame...don't take it personally. Just work on you, be the best 2.4 you can be. Don't listen to the others, decide for YOU what you are going to do...seems a lot people these days don't appreciate honoring vows, or doing the hard work...it's always "hit the easy button"...listen to yourself, not them. I almost wanted to punch the last guy who told me to dump my W and teach her a lesson..lol.
Hang in there! T^2
Hi T^2, I am hanging in there. W seems to be doing all she can right now to do things that she hasn't done in a while. Its almost like somebody who has left home for the first time. For instance going out with people she has never been out with before for a night out in town, probably to some really busy and noisy bars, things she stopped doing years ago and has had no interest in. I think this is part of Replay?
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
