I say I think because I walk a little further down this path everyday. What if divorce affects us negatively in the finance dept. and that impacts the kids? What if I just don't care in that particular sense at that particular time anymore?
I can certainly be definite today by all means, but the future is not set. It is a boundary for sure, whether this boundary would lead to divorce right away is the issue. I would be done though. That is for sure. So, in that aspect, it is not wishy washy, just pragmatic
And you are right. Actually, he was friendly with me when with GF, but we had a talk during her absence and he decided to go forward with this R of his, so we will see.
I have also made the decision to accept a couple of dates. Nothing crazy, but I think of it as a GAL lmao. I am not looking for any R right now and my "dates" know this. I have been encouraged to no end by H to do this, but the couple of times it looked like I did (actually didn't) did not go over that well with him, which, made me laugh.
I do not want to play those games, so you all are the only ones who know for now. Perhaps I have been in a bit of a holding pattern as far as H is concerned and this is another step in detaching a little further. We will see.
