I like the idea of a retreat. There should be a DBing retreat! I would be there in a heartbeat. It would have to be free, of course, as none of us here have any money now! LOL!
Good goal for April and May-refocus on you.
Interesting that we all have different ideas about what is or isn't a deal breaker. (I agree moving in w GF would be a deal breaker for me too....I guess a PA would happen first, in which case I'd already be done.)
At some point we all have to decide which marital promises that have already been broken put us at the end of our rope.
GOod luck with Day 2.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.