it's NOT about whether SHE is happy, miserable, happier, more miserable, or feeling just okay...
your life is your job. What are you doing to make yourself a better man, a happier man?
No more tying her happiness/misery (OR YOUR BELIEFS ABOUT IT)
to yours...
Don't spend energy thinking about it and when it enters your mind, turn your focus on what YOUR plan is for YOU that day.
If she's happier without you around her
then either she means she's happier without the OLD YOU around her, b/c she does not know the new real you -
or you have not shown her the improvements and maybe haven't made them as deeply or thoroughly as you hoped/wanted.
Either way
you have the same course. Be the new better SP...for real, from this day forward.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
