Thanks Barb, I will. The sun will rise again The relationship meant a lot to me and there were many very special things about it and wonderful memories. She is a very sweet, loving, considerate person in so many ways. Unfortunately, there were things that weren't going to change and I had to look and decide whether this is what I wanted in a relationship. I had to say no it wasn't. Her life was one stress after another ever since we met, she was very dependent on me even for things she could do herself, and she had control issues that just made me crazy. And it wasn't going to change even though we tried to address these things last summer. Those kind of personality issues don't change because someone says "I just won't do it". So, my grief now is that I find it hard to think of being without her but I also know it's not going to work being with her. Yuckkkk!
