Struggling tonight. I got more info on why my H left. At first he told me that he hates me. Then stated that he just didn't like me. That buying a house with me meant that he would be stuck forever. I'm struggling tonight. I want to continue on with the DBing, but I'm not sure what to do at this point. Going dark isn't really an option because we have kids.

It's so frustrating. Because I feel like he is purposely sabotaging the fact that we were having a good day today. We actually were communicating well all weekend.

What do I do now? Any suggestions?


Me: 33 H:33
M: 11 yrs
S: 3/8/13
H came home: 3/10/13
S for second time: 3/16/13