I've been married for 12 years with 3 children S12, S4, and D2. Problems started last October. W was upset that I would come home angry and mentioned that we were living like roommates or brother/sister. I thought marriage was fine, and she would snap out of it as she had in the past. NOT! She started getting angry and leaving the house. One night she didn't come back. (Months later she said she was at a male friend's house drinking tequila all night. She was upset I didn't call her.) I called her early in the morning to see if she was coming home to watch the kids.

Things degenerated quickly after that. Sex ended. We started sleeping in separate rooms (her action). I found it difficult to talk to her. We went out on a date once. Afterwards, she broke down in tears about her feelings and our problems. I had told her earlier that year that I didn't believe in God. Despite that, I asked her to pray with me. After that point, I don't think she could believe anything I said. She thought I was being fake to try to fix the problems.