Can I ask a question guys? Not sure if this is highjacking, so apologies if so. I am in same sit. H has been in an EA &PA for a year now. he has moved out. I go back and forth with being pleasant when he is around, being accommodating in as far as the kids go. I think he definitely is cake eating. I know I am allowing it. I want to be hopeful. On the other hand, it is so disrespectful to me and my kids. He wants to be "set free" I know can't do anything about him-his choices. Wish I could say leave us alone...can't do it. I don't want conflict...Why are some people so selfish?


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13