It would appear wife's latest trick is to go around telling people how miserable life is in our M. In DR it talks about how enablers and family and friends only hear part of the story. Of course they are just hearing what W believes, not that there are so many deeper and major issues causing her to be miserable. I am just the target and the blame for it all. Of course their opinion is 'well if you are miserable you must divorce to be happy again!'

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.