So CB. What did I break in the 37 rules.

Gifts - bought small things to cheer wife up.
Discussion about future - although I did not bring up the conversation it was a reaction to something she said that prompted it all.

So just these two things managed to make W become more mean and cold.

Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.