CB, my W brought up summer vacation and insisted we go. I left it up to her to make the arrangements, and she did. Maybe you should do the same and see what her response is.

For sleeping, I'm the wrong man to ask. I will say I eventually went to my dr and got something to help.

I hope counseling goes well for you. Until then I'd back off from any r talks.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later