Shiss...live today with me okay? Not tomorrow, just today
I maintain that paper does not have as much power as we do. While you may not be able to stop H from filing or serving, it does not stop you from DB or GAL or making your H see that he was a fool. It's a piece of paper, given weight by society and our own fears.
Pema Chodron has a lot to say on fear, you should read her stuff.
Hey Shiss...........What are your plans for the rest of the day?
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
I let my lawyer know as a heads up that my husband said I will be getting papers this week. I am requesting conciliation with my husband to see if the marriage can be worked on. Is this a bad idea? I don't remember reading about it in DB/DR?
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
I let my lawyer know as a heads up that my husband said I will be getting papers this week. I am requesting conciliation with my husband to see if the marriage can be worked on. Is this a bad idea? I don't remember reading about it in DB/DR?
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
It depends on what kind of vibe you've been getting from him. Personally I don't think he's going to go with it and see it as a sign of pursuit or you "forcing" him to do something he doesn't want.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Take the paperwork and find out what your rights are from your own legal counsel. You don't have to immediately get the ball rolling for a D, but you should just find out what is best for you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
