Thank you AnotherStander and Breakdown - your advice and comments are as always greatly appreciated...
Little interesting step - she had to pop over the house today to pick up a couple of bits for our Son - she saw a half empty bottle of milk on the side and said "I'm just going shopping, would you like me to pick some milk up for you?" I told her that would be really helpful if she didn't mind.
I know this seems like nothing, but it just feels like something if that makes any sense. Obviously I'm trying not to read anything into it and just looking at it as a tiny, tiny baby step.
She also phones me now if she needs to discuss anything regarding our son. Not massive i know, but before it was only ever text or email.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013