Thanks T, that is the attitude. I am running the risk based on my research of being the guy in the old saying "when you walk around all day with a hammer, all the world looks like a nail." I need to focus on what I can do better, and let the rest play itself out. I posted some updates on mine and would appreciate your feedback.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"